How children learn

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By Sue Clarke, teacher and trainer, British Council


Your child is an individual and different from all others. The way your child learns best depends on many factors: age, learning style and personality. Read the notes below, and think about your child. This will help you to choose activities and methods that will suit your child best.

Children pass through different stages of learning

  • A baby or infant learns about the world through the senses.
  • From about two until seven years old the child starts to develop the ability to reason and think, but is still self-centred.
  • After the age of about seven a child usually becomes less self-centred and can look outside themselves. By the age of 12 most children can reason and test out their ideas about the world.
  • This means that with younger children we need to personalise and give examples which relate to themselves, whereas older children need help to make sense of the world around them. This also means that children must be at the right stage of learning. For example younger children are ready to learn about numbers, colours and shapes but are not ready for abstract grammatical rules.

What kind of learner is your child?

  • It is important to understand how your child likes to learn best. Which are the child's dominant senses? Do they like pictures and reading? If so you can encourage your child to use drawings, pictures, maps or diagrams as part of their learning.
  • Some children like listening to explanations and reading aloud. You could use stories to encourage this kind of child. And most children enjoy learning through songs, chants and rhymes.
  • Does your child like to touch things and physically move about? Some children have lots of energy! You could play games to get them moving or running around, acting out rhymes or stories or even dancing!
  • Quieter children may have a good vocabulary and be good readers. Word games, crosswords, wordsearches, anagrams and tongue twisters would be good to encourage these children.
  • Other children require logical, clear explanations of rules and patterns, or like to work out the rules for themselves. They may be good at maths too. For these children, activities such as puzzles, problem-solving, ordering or categorising provide ideal opportunities for learning.

What kind of interaction does your child prefer?

  • Some children are outgoing and sociable and can learn a language quickly because they want to communicate. They are not worried about making mistakes.
  • Other children are quieter and more reflective. They learn by listening and observing what is happening. They don't like to make mistakes and will wait until they are sure.
  • If your child is outgoing they may prefer learning in groups with other children, whereas a quieter child may need more private, quiet time to feel more secure about learning a language. A bedtime story in English could be an opportunity to provide this quiet time.

Motivating your child

  • For a child to be motivated, learning needs to be fun and stress-free. Encourage them to follow their own interests and personal likes. For example if your child likes football he or she will probably like to read a story about football even if the level is a little difficult. Interest and motivation often allow children to cope with more difficult language.
  • Try to provide as many fun activities as you can for learning English. Songs and music, videos and DVDs, and all sorts of games are motivating for children.

For how long can your child concentrate?

Children can usually only concentrate for short periods of time. Make sure that you stop or change activity when your child is bored or restless. This might be after only a few minutes.

Correcting your child's mistakes

Children respond well to praise and encouragement – let your child know when they have done something well. Don't criticise them too much when they make a mistake. It's natural to make mistakes when learning a language. Don't correct every grammatical mistake – encourage your child to use English to communicate.

Repetition and routines

  • Children need to repeat language items many times to remember them so don't be afraid to repeat games or do several different activities with the same language topic or set of words.
  • Children often love to repeat the same song or story as it gives them a sense of confidence and familiarity.
  • Establishing a regular routine for homework is also important. Set a regular time for homework and help your child as necessary.


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Chlim's picture

Hi, my friends ask me to teach their 5 years old english. Can you please tell me how to begin? It is advisable to start with the ladybirds key words reading scheme?

Joanne Blackmore's picture

Thanks for your post.
Have you read our article 'How to start teaching kids English at home'?:
You'll also find lots and lots of resources and advice on the British Council's TeachingEnglish site, which has a special section for teaching young learners:
We would suggest using resources designed for non-native speakers of English to start with, your local bookshop might be able to suggest some materials that are available locally.
I hope that helps.

Best wishes,
LearnEnglish Kids team

Heni Ari's picture

Hello :)
Great article it is. But, are there any practical, easy ways to recognize what kind of learner our children are? My son is 6, and he's started learning English at school these days. I wanna help him at home.
Thanks a lot :)

Joanne Blackmore's picture
Hello Heni,
We're pleased to read that the article is useful for you.
I think the best way is to try different activities and make a note of what your child responds to best. If your child is not  enjoying an activity, it is better to stop rather than force them to continue. Observe your son in everyday situations and notice what he seems to enjoy doing.
You can also ask your son to help you choose the activities, for example asking "shall we listen to a song now, or play a card game?" Children are motivated to learn if they are part of the choosing process.
I hope that helps. Good luck with helping your son at home. Let us know how you get on!

Best wishes,
LearnEnglish Kids team

brownhead's picture

Hi, I really find your site very interesting. The topic on how children may learn easily is very helpful to moms who need help in teaching their children on how to adapt new lessons. I agree that the very first thing to do is know your child's learning capacity and style because our child are different individuals. The next important thing that I also used for my children when they were younger is motivation. This is the best for me I guess. I found out that they easily grasp things easily when you motivate them first. One and last thing that can be very well right for children in learning,  is to praise them and encourage them especially when they have done good things. 

Joanne Blackmore's picture
Thanks very much for writing to us. I thoroughly agree with you! Considering your child's personality, motivation, encouragment and praise some of the most important factors when teaching your child English.

Best wishes,
LearnEnglish Kids team
meas vuthy's picture

Dear Brit council, i am from Cambodia, today i am not a english teacher but i want to train my children at home to be strong , English language. so how can i start to teach them.

Best regard,

from Meas vuthy, thanks

Joanne Blackmore's picture

Hi, thanks for your post.
You'll find lots of useful tips for teaching English at home in our articles and video tips.
It's important to establish a regular routine for your English time at home. I think that short and frequent sessions are the most effective. Vary the activities in order to maintain your children's interest and above all make sure that they have fun with the language. Use songs, rhymes, stories, games, videos, craft activities etc. to introduce and practise language with your children. You can also incorporate English into everyday situations such as preparing food, getting dressed or going to the park.
Have a look at the weekly top tips on our parents' home page for new ideas!
I hope that helps. Let us know how you get on!

Best wishes,
LearnEnglish Kids team

dhanalakshmi senthilkumar's picture

Hello! My son is now 3.8 years old.. I do not force him in anyway.. Bt i always think that bringing up in his communication level is much important.. I try to communicate wit him in english all time, bt he rarely respond me in english. But he can understand,.. What shall i do and how should i train him. Please guide me. He is almost good in learning and grasping things doing activities as well apart from communication.

Joanne Blackmore's picture

Hello! Thanks for your comment.
Children go through a passive phase when learning a language. At the moment your son is busy absorbing the sounds, vocabulary and structures of English. Don't worry - when he is ready he will begin to respond to you in English, but be patient as the timing can vary greatly from one child to another.
The most important thing at this stage is that he feels at ease with the language and that learning English is an enjoyable experience for him.
Have a look at this thread in our forum - there are some suggestions of activities on LearnEnglish Kids to use with children of this age.
I hope that helps

Best wishes,
LearnEnglish Kids team